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Banana Moments
Copyright 2009 Joanna Marie Jullien
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Problem: She is always telling me what to do, when I already know!

Frustrated Response: Snap at her; yell; show her how angry you are.

Result: She will keep checking because your response raises doubt for her. You also hurt her feelings every time you yell and are disrespectful.

Effective Response: Assure her you know what to do – and follow through with action. Take responsibility and your Mom will back off.
Inside: Banana Moments - Spring Edition 2007
A Teenagers’ Guide: How to Get Mom off My back! She’s Driving Me Nuts!
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Spring 2007
Coach Your Teen To Success
By Barbara McRae, MCC
2004, Achievers Trade Press
 
 
Ah, Ha! Banana Moments
Some hindsights and lessons learned from mothers of teens.
 
Topic: Peer Pressure - If your child is not hanging out with other kids, and is spending weekend nights at home alone, do not despair. While it is important that our children develop healthy social connections, this could easily be a signal that your child is saying no to alcohol, drugs and other mischief.
 
When we encourage kids to say "no" to alcohol and drugs, it really means they must at times say "no" to their peers.
 
 
Fall 2007
The Wonder of Girls: Understanding the Hidden Nature of Our Daughters
By Michael Gurian
2002, Atria Books
 
 
Summer 2007
Confessions of a Slacker Mom
By Muffy Mead-Ferro
2004, LifeLong Books
 
 
Winter 2008
Why Do They Act That Way?
A Survival Guide To the
Adolescent Brain for You
and Your Teen
By David Walsh
2004, Free Press
 
 
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Spring 2008
Emotional Intelligence
By Daniel Goleman
1994,Bantam Books
 
 
Summer 2008 
High Society: How Substance Abuse Ravages America and What to do About It,
By Joseph Califano, Jr.
2007, Public Affairs,
  Parent
  Factor
Fall 2008 
Queen Bee Moms and King Pin Dads
By Rosalind Wiseman
2006, Crown Publishers